Before You Consult a Genealogist
Getting the most out of your consultation
We know that you value your time and money, so try to think about a few things before you consult with us; doing this will help us help you get the most bang for your buck:
Write a statement that details what you want to know; be as specific as you can! Do you have ancestors who served in the Revolutionary War? How many children did Great-Aunt Betty have? Do I have Mayflower ancestors? What became of a missing ancestor?
Gather the basics- names, dates, places, photos (if available). All of these will help us get onto the correct path faster. Consulting with family is a great way to start collecting these items (and maybe an excuse for a family reunion!). This is also essential in helping us find new information rather than things that you already know about. Any information, no matter how small, could be useful, and your genealogist will be able to help you sort out the important items.
What do I already know? People often know a great deal more than they think they do! Have you heard rumors or family stories about your research subject? Family stories and rumors often turn out to have a kernel of the truth in them, even if they end up not being completely true in the end.
Expect the unexpected! Families are complicated entities and the members behave in unexpected ways. Slavery, murder, infidelity, and illegitimacy are just a few of the issues I have seen crop up in family trees, including my own! Decide what you are comfortable with knowing, and tell your genealogist. Although ethical genealogists will not lie or cover up the evidence, there are certain things you may not yet be comfortable with, and that's ok.